Are you the person who tries to avoid an argument in your relationships? If so, stop escaping them, as they are super healthy for you and the one you have an argument with! As uncomfortable as they may be, it is an important way to stay connected with one another.
When was the last time you stopped and had a good conversation? What was it about? Did you enjoy it and leave a happier person? If your answer is no, what is keeping you from doing it? Is it shame, or fear to ask personal questions? Would you like the people around you to ask you more sincere questions?
Sometimes it makes sense to allow emotions to learn from it, and sometimes they are incorrect due to past events. In doubt, stoicism books are a handy way to rationalise. Epictetus was a Stoic philosopher. He was primarily concerned with integrity, self-discipline and personal freedom. His knowledge was conveyed in a way of life.
I’s not all freedom, there is a price to pay No, it’s not all perfect in freelance world. But to me, it’s worth paying the price. Do you want to become a freelancer? You’re never too old or too young to start. I turned into one right after school. I was 19 and had no clue about anything, still it was the logical choice to make and felt natural to me. I promise you, you will learn a great deal about yourself during the start.